It wears on you. You can't sleep. You can't concentrate. Slowly, the worry that infidelity has invaded your life absorbs you; every action you take is in effort to find out the truth.

You feel like you're going crazy...wonder if you are imagining things. You doubt your gut instinct even though the questions plague you day in and day out.



"Is he cheating on me?"

"Is she having an affair?"

"Am I losing my mind?"

When it comes to a cheating spouse, there are traditionally common signs and changes within a relationship that you can watch for. Remember, just because these signs might be present in YOUR relationship, does not guarantee infidelity is present. However, if you need peace of mind, watch for these signs, listen to your gut, and do yourself a favor and find out the truth. The unknown is worse than the reality. Knowledge is power.

Common Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1. Change in Routine

In essence, a change in the normal "rhythm" of your home is an indicator that something is up. If you are experiencing this, you know exactly what I refer to. It's hard to explain, but it something that makes your gut instinct throw red flags.

2. Sudden Attention to Physical Appearance

I'm all about good health and exercise, but if there is one all-too common sign os a spouse that either IS, or is contemplating, cheating - it is a sudden and larger than normal attentions spent on their appearance.

Men are easy to read this way. When a woman "strikes their fancy" and they want her attention, they work out, they dress nicer... Let's put it like this, your couch potato for the past 10 years suddenly is at the gym and taking care of himself the way he did when he was courting YOU. Now, if your husband suddenly starts going to the gym, does this mean he is having an affair? No.... but trust your gut instinct if you doubt that his unusual actions are not for his health, or for YOUR interest in him.

Women do this, too. For years, she's in sweats...hair in a ponytail...minimal makeup...then suddenly, she looks flat-out HOT when she is LEAVING you to go out or to work.

Primping to attract the attention of the opposite sex is human nature - for someone who is in the "hunt" phase of a relationship.

3. Unexplained Time Away from Home

You used to be able to set your watch by his regular routine, and now suddenly, he is working late. Maybe she is AWOL during the day while you are at work...or needs to out of town for work a lot more than ever. Worst is when at one time, you were invited to be with your spouse at work functions and social events...and now, there is no mention of you attending, too. Again, if this is happening to you, you know exactly what I mean.

4. You WONDER if your Spouse is Cheating

Yes, it is that simple. If your thought pattern brings that question to the front of your mind, there is a reason for it. Your inner alarm has gone off - and it is screaming at you. Listen to your inner alarm - don't jump to conclusions, but do listen and take action.

5. That Damn Cell Phone

He is on the cell phone all the time. She is sending text messages at all hours. They won't go anywhere, not even to take a shower, without their cell phone....and they NEVER leave their cell phone unattended around you. Then, one day, the cell phone bill comes in the mail and you see MANY calls and messages sent/received from the same unknown number. You ask your spouse and get, "Oh, thats a client" or some type of evasive answer.

That inner alarm keeps screaming at you. You think about calling the number to see who answers - but then the cell phone number owner will know..and tell your spouse. That cell phone number is the biggest piece of information you have that can even begin to prove that YOU are NOT going crazy.

Find out who that cell phone number belongs to - now. No one will know you did - it is totally discreet. Even your credit card will show a payment to an obscure company that will have NO indication of what is was for. Only YOU will know.

I don't know what price you put on your peace of mind and feeling of sanity, but to me, it's priceless. Find out here.
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